TLDR cause of gebruikersnaam.
In 2020 I was in my Little Busters/Key phase and was looking for other fans of it so I met him right when he was like halfway into it. Eventually he started telling me to join but at the time I was a different person entirely and at the beginning of even caring to talk to people online in general so I had plenty of connections to twitter people, thought I would never use a forum and was scared of joining chat anyway so I quickly discarded the bookmark.
3 years later, after changing a lot and getting burned out of being online geb kept telling me about it from time to time and eventually after also having met whim through flash and her suggesting it too, as a place where things are different, I finally got persuaded into trying again. That's about it.
In funny terms you could say it was cause Little Busters then butterfly effect.